My Boyfriend is Afraid to try and have without a condom?

Wow....good for him. A lot of men aren't that concerned or careful. I've always heard that it's better for men without a condom. It sounds like you're both very sure that you don't want a baby right now and that's great that you're doing something to prevent it. As long as you're taking the pills correctly, then there shouldn't be a problem. Now, as you know, nothing is 100% effective except abstinence. The bc/condom combo is your best bet outside of abstinence, but you should be pretty safe without the condom.